Nonprofit for seniors celebrates 10 years

Lillie Williams, left, is a driver for At Home in Darien. Joan Davis, in the car, is getting a ride through the program.
Lillie Williams, left, is a driver for At Home in Darien. Joan Davis, in the car, is getting a ride through the program.

Lillie Williams calls them her babies. If she doesn’t see them for a while, she’ll go to their home to check on them.
“When my clients get sick, I go visit them, and have visited them in the hospital as well,” said Williams, who is a driver for At Home in Darien, a nonprofit organization whose mission is to improve the lives of seniors and enable them to live in their homes for as long as possible.
All Darien residents 60 years or older are able to use At Home in Darien’s programs and services free of charge. The majority of At Home In Darien funding comes from private donors.
The organization is celebrating its 10th anniversary this year with its first-ever fundraiser. The event will also honor those who have offered continuing support to the organization. Proceeds will go toward operating expenses and maintenance.
The celebration, which is open to the public, will take place May 10 from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Country Club of Darien, 300 Mansfield Avenue. Tickets are $125 and can be purchased through the At Home in Darien website at The RSVP deadline is April 30.
The primary service for At Home in Darien is transportation. There are hired part-time drivers, as well as volunteer drivers to extend the transportation options. At Home in Darien provided 342 rides in January and 228 rides in February throughout Norwalk, Stamford, and New Canaan, according to board President Susan Bhirud.
Williams, a Stamford resident and retired minister, drives seniors to appointments and errands twice a week. She said she has grown very attached to the people she gives rides to.
“I take them to doctor’s appointments, grocery shopping, and wherever else they want to go,” Williams said. “They don’t have to bother their families or friends. We pick them up and drop them off.”
Williams added that if it wasn’t for the service, “they would be stuck in the house or paying great sums of money to get back and forth.”
Darien resident Joan Davis said At Home in Darien’s transportation services are “fabulous.”
“They take me all over the place — Palmer’s Market, the Lapham house at Waveny Park in New Canaan to play bridge, doctor’s appointments, and physical therapy,” Davis said. “It’s just a delightful way to get around. It gives me independence.”
Additional services
At Home in Darien provides weekly visitors to chat with seniors in their home, as well as a shopper, caller, and helper with small chores.
In addition, it organizes volunteer groups from the community to perform seasonal home maintenance, such as leaf raking and snow shoveling.
At Home also sends paid professionals to conduct in-home safety evaluations.
“We will send someone to your home to analyze situations that might be unsafe, in anticipation of a fall,” said Bhirud, adding that this could be as “simple” as removing a rug or moving a chair.
The organization also sends out a monthly calendar of local activities, sells half-price taxi vouchers, and mails a newsletter containing events.
At Home also maintains a list of vetted service providers. “We give them the name of people who are safe, competent, trustworthy and fair in their pricing,” Bhirud said.
The organization also provides free services to people under 60 who are handicapped.

“We try to find programs that we feel would be useful for Darien seniors, their family and caretakers, and bring these programs to town,” Bhirud said.“All of this is to make your home a place to grow old, with help from your community.”

For several years prior to 2009, several groups in town had been working on the Aging in Place initiative. Aging in place is a term used to describe people living in the residence of their choice for as long as they are able, as they age.
The research, focus groups, and collaboration of efforts developed into a pilot program in 2008, which was funded by The Community Fund of Darien, according to Bhirud.
Ten years ago, the organization Aging in Place in Darien was formed and began offering services to Darien seniors.
The name was eventually changed to Aging in Place+Gallivant. Gallivant was the transportation component of the organization. In 2013, the name was changed to its current one.
Bench program
At Home In Darien is raising funds this anniversary year to give the town of Darien park benches, to be installed at Weed Beach. It’s now accepting donations for this initiative. At Home in Darien will purchase four benches for the beach, and will dedicate them to the town.
There will be a townwide unveiling of the benches at the beach on Sept. 29 at 4 p.m.
Looking ahead
At Home in Darien’s goals for the future, according to Bhirud, are to “contribute to the well-being of its members, ensure a stable and growing organization, and foster a livable community.”
“We have experienced enormous growth over the past 10 years and, with the increased awareness of the town as well as the expanding demographics of the senior population, we anticipate continued expansion of our services over the next five to 10 years,” Bhirud said.
Bringing more programs to Darien to raise awareness about seniors in the community and the issues people face as they age, as well as making Darien a more intergenerational community, Bhirud added, “is a major initiative for the future.”